Words after I said
I strongly oppose the statement “think twice before you speak”. We speak to convey what we think, not to convey what they expect. I also believe that an instant reply is far better than a reply after thinking twice also than a delayed reply. So I think we need not regret the words we said. Be it right or wrong to the listener, for you you’ve spoken up. That’s the way to prevent from thinking that you should have spoken up what you had initially thought.
Not being motivated
I will have no regrets even if I don’t feel motivated. Somewhere I have read that sometimes you need to find motivation, sometimes motivation finds you. That’s it. I believe in motivation that it will surely find me one day. All I need to do is I must enjoy what I do and I should find complacency in everything happens. I can achieve something if I feel motivated all the time throughout the day. Whereas if I train myself to see good in almost everything. I can live. Yes! Living is the purpose here in life whereas achieving is a choice.
Not having what I want
I will never regret not having what I desire for. If your desires are strong enough to push you towards the way should to in order to fulfill your desires. We need not worry if we don’t have we could have. All you need to do is to wait and not to regret. There is a possibility that what you possess today could go away tomorrow. What you do not possess could come to you for a while. Always be ready to say bye when things go. Always be there to welcome when things come to your hand. Remember always! Always!
Opinions of others
Sometimes an opinion of others might spoil our entire day simply because we could have considered. The best way to tackle this is to move their opinions to junk as soon as you receive them. Never convert their opinions into your decisions. Opinion matters only when we are not in a position to analyze our position.
Behaviours of others
What if someone misbehaves with you? You need not show the same inn return. Instead of showing the same in return, we could avoid the conflict if we treat them as a kid. They cannot understand what we say. Likewise, they too cannot understand our point of view.
My appearance
Appearance is nothing when attitude comes into the play. A commendable attitude can give you a good shape that you have never imagined. A good appearance may touch someone’s eyes. But on the other hand, a good attitude can touch someone’s life. It can change someone’s life in a positive way. The quality of appearance diminishes along with your age.Whereas you attitude should grow along with your age. Lets disappear our appearance, show up our attitude.
Love
Mani kannan
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